they're correct.
It'll get you to ruin your relationships, people's trust in you, your own stability.
There has been more than one time in my life that someone has heard something about someone else and I am the only person this other person told. Of course, it comes down to "you must have told them."
There has also been more than one time in my life when someone has lied about the blame just so I looked bad and they didn't. How can anyone just have such a blatant disregard for the way things will turn out for other people? Like "yeah, sure, it'll ruin everything for them, but it's not hurting me." How is it possible these people can just do that? If it was me, my conscience would just entirely eat me from the inside, and I would feel so guilty I almost wouldn't be able to function.
It's also odd how these people of deceit can pull this absolute boulder onto themselves, of hatred and arguments and anger, and then they can be the ones upset about it. "I'm so upset my friends are mad at me" *crycrycry* "then maybe you shouldn't have called them bitches" or "maybe you shouldn't have started a rumour about them."
There's also the inability to take responsibility for their own actions. If you are confronted with something and you say "Sure, I said that. I'm really sorry, I hope you can forgive me." there will be that forgiveness process that will take place. However, if you respond with "No, that wasn't me, that was Molly" or "Well, you said you were mad at me" and you try and pass the blame, the person will be less likely to forgive and forget.
So why can't we all just be honest? Take responsibility for what you do and act like the adult you are. If you are honest from the beginning there will be no need for you to bail yourself out of it.
tell the truth
all the time
In the words of the late Heath Ledger,
"you either die the hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain"
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