Being stuck in the middle and not being able to do anything is one thing. You can take a side, but either way you will be losing one person you care about, and you will be choosing a person over someone else. There are people that expect you to do things you are not willing to do. There is an extreme amount of stress that is put on you, not due to the situation that you are in, but due to the reaction of people. These are people you love and you trust and it cuts you like a steak knife to softened butter to see their hatred towards one another. You are constantly second guessing your relationships with these people, wondering if they will ever speak to you like they speak to the person in question. It's a situation that many find themselves in, and not many find themselves able to handle wisely.
There is also the opposite of the former situation. There is being replaced as the middle. Two people that never talked before, never cared about each other, are suddenly best friends. That certain person you thought as your friend and ally is now in the spot you used to be in, and more. Doing things that were never offered to you. Having things said to them that were never said to you. Talking about personal things in the other person's life that that person never informed you of. They are open with each other and they tell each other everything. However, this person did not tell you what is going on. You find out at the same time as people that have never been in the same position as you. They have never been this person's friend. This person has never told THEM that they love them, yet you are at the same level as these people.
love relationships aren't the only ones that can hurt.
i think a breakup would be less painful than these.
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